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Interview Preparation, Tips and Advice

September 29th, 2007

The interview waiting room – you really have nothing to say or exchange in the waiting room, stay focused at the target and the college interview, you don’t have to go over your resume or application at the waiting room, but think of how perfect you are for this college, that you can’t wait to get in there and explain to these people that they just found their dream applicant.

Going over as many college profiles as you can will also give you a very big picture, college profiles are the windows into the possible future, you can spend some time researching and learning the different college profiles. College admissions is a very important point, you will need to get to know every college admissions procedure, for your own benefits, you will be surprised to learn that there are differences in college
admissions, and that admissions in general is a huge research topic. Don’t be shy, ask all what you need to know about college admissions, maybe there is a college admissions person that will be happy to clear a lot of the college admissions terms.

Another point to remember is that you are still in high school. Focus on your classes, activities, friends, and family. Take time to relax. Any period of intense work requires time for relaxation and reflection.

Mock interview – prepare by having friends or relatives interview you, rehearse the answers that you give, listen to criticism regarding your answer, how fast you talk, the gestures
you make while taking. All these can help you be better prepared and not surprised or shocked the day of your college interview. Remember that you also need to keep in mind the college profile, and remember who you are talking with.

Prepare your own list of questions to ask – prepare questions regarding the courses, the program, college rules, and general college life, to show that you are serious about
actually going to this college. If you have good questions you also have a good chance of impressing the interviewer by showing you have initiative and that you also have some criteria for the place you will be spending the next few years in.

Dress in advance – have your outfit ready a couple of days before the college interview, know what you will have on, and choose items that you like and that make you feel good.

Final word – remember that these are only people that are sitting on the other side of that table, they were once like you, going to college, filling in endless application forms and getting ready for interviews. Making a mistake does not mean that it’s the end of the line for you, you can always show that you have the ability to land on your feet, to acknowledge your mistakes and to go on, in spite of making an evident mistake here and there, these are mature people who will appreciate it, they are looking for someone who will fight to get a chance, and that will not crack under pressure, if you had something go wrong in the interview – get to work on repairing the damage immediately, do not wait, do not delay the thoughts for the night, but react and recover, say something honest and funny, show willingness to work things out and solve them by hard work, but never, never, give up. Good luck!.

Jonathan Mayheart, specializing in BioData, has been studying and researching interviews.
He recently wrote a few articles for http://www.collegeinterview.zupatips.com/ providing tips and advice regarding college interviews for students and college applicants.

Correlation between sex drives and anything else in life

September 29th, 2007

Sex is important in every relationship to work. It is through
sharing this act of love that two people learn to trust each
other and love each other more. It is hard to stay in a
relationship where there is no sex. Usually, marriages do not
work out because they lack sexual drives or have non-existent
sex lives. That is the reason why many people are coming up with
answers to boost sex drives of people. Sex is the answer to many
problems that are affecting people of today.

Recent studies have shown that more and more married couples
have less and less sex when as they grow old. This is the secret
that has been tearing families and relationships apart. At the
age of 40, average men usually lose their sex drives. Most of
them also acquire Erectile Dysfunction. This is the inability of
a man to have or maintain an erection needed for sex. As a
result, they do not have sex.

It is no secret that people who have frequent sex live longer,
healthier, and happier lives. The reason for this is sex is one
of the sports really works. It is better than swimming 20 laps a
day.

A sexual act can also help burn up the calories that have been
stored in the body of people. This will make them slimmer
because they have regular exercise.

When a man cannot have sex, it usually leads to mild depression
cases. The reason for this is that they consider their penises
as their source of masculinity. When they are not able to have
an erection, they feel that they have lost their manhood.
Because of this, they become introverts. They also ruin their
relationships with their families because of this.

Studies have shown that the effect of having an increased sex
drive is evident in any part of a human being’s life. When they
have sex regularly, their skin colors glow as a sign that they
are satisfied and happy with their lives. Men who also have sex
regularly tend to become more successful in their work careers.
The reason is simple, they are happy with their lives that they
do not bring their problems in the office.

To be able to increase your sex drive, it is always important to
star with yourself. Couples should make sure that they keep the
fire burning in their relationship. A boost in sexual drive is
always important, but to have sex, all you need is passion.
Passion is important because it is the reason why kids are born
out of love.

When you have a problem in your sex life, admit it. If
necessary, use medicine that will boost your sexual drives.
There are a lot of natural supplements in the market such as
penis pills. It is never wrong to admit you both have a problem
in your sexual life.

Couples who maintain their sex lives are the usual people whose
relationships last for a long time. No matter what problems they
have encountered, they will stick together and face the
harshness in lives as one. h

Changing Jobs (Part 2 of 3) Employer-Provided Group Life Insurance

September 29th, 2007

Maintain Stability in the Midst of Change

Life can bring a flood of changes during your working years.
Career changes. Changes in priorities. Changes from work to
retirement. How can you make sure that your investments will
navigate through these periods of change?

Employer-Provided Group Life Insurance

Life insurance isn’t always a topic of fun conversation, but it
is a necessary issue for many people. Many employers provide a
small amount of life insurance as a benefit to their employees.
Your choices? 1. Go without coverage 2. Convert the group plan
to an individual policy from the same company 3. Purchase an
individual policy Converting to an individual policy from the
group plan can be a good option provided that you are
uninsurable otherwise. The problem is that the rates may not be
as competitive as you may desire. If you desire life insurance,
your best bet is to purchase an individual policy for the amount
that you need directly from an insurance company or agent. This
way, you control the benefits and can take it with you from one
job to the next. Treat the extra insurance from work as an added
benefit.

What You Must Know About Spyware Right Now

September 28th, 2007

Spyware is like the new technological nuclear weapon on the internet. Spyware can not only damage the health of your computer but it can also steal your personal identity other personal information. Spyware is software that is hidden inside legitimate downloads that you come across on the internet. An example would
be the growing number of file sharing programs and free mobile ring tone advertisements that you come across on the internet. If you have teenagers in your household, it’s imperative that they know the dangers of using these programs as what takes 2 minutes
to download and listen to, can take a good few hours to remove the damage left behind after being infected with spyware.

Spyware can slip past anti virus programs and firewalls as it is created to look exactly like an innocent part of the download you just requested. This low down trickery allows the spyware publisher into your computer. Once the spyware has installed itself on your machine it can reap havoc in many different ways. Spyware can cause your computer to crash and attack other programs on your computer similar to the way a virus does. Spyware’s most common task is to record and report back you internet surfing habits, like what sites you visit, how long you spend on the sites, what you download etc. One of the most frightening aspects is that spyware can actually record what information you type into your internet browser, this includes
your credit card details, user names and passwords. Having access to this information allows the spyware publisher to commit identity theft pretty easily.

Spyware removal software should be installed on every single computer. The software is programmed to scan deep into your computer in search for any spyware parasites it has a record of in its database, this is why it’s important to keep you software updated as many new spyware threats are being released every week. Spyware can be virtually anywhere on your computer and is usually disguised as integral parts of your computer. You need spyware removal software on your computer as it acts as your ally
in the spyware battle. The software can detect these parasites and remove them from your computer.

The best way to stay protected from this ever evolving threat is to always have up to date spyware removal software on your computer and have at least some understanding of how spyware operates. Get knowledgeable with small chunks of useful information by visiting Spyware Advice where we provide free up to date information on what moving in the spyware world.

Anarchy: Law, Order, and Authority

September 28th, 2007

[Author’s Note: Another essay that I wrote on notebook paper during boring school hours. This wonderful little piece was starting in boring English class on Tuesday, November 26, 2002, and continued into Art class. It was finished in school on Tuesday, December 2, 2002, when I finished it in English class. I worked on it in no other class, and finished it within a few classes. Hooray for high school.]

The Beginning

If a group of people were to live on an island, who would govern who, how, and why? If person A suspected person B of possessing a deadly weapon (if this were a crime), then how could we justify person A searching person B? Whatever reason offered for justification of search and seizure, it aso justifies person B searching person A. On this island, who would be the government? Who would rule? Whatever can justify the rule of person A can also justify the rule of person B. If one person is elected on the island, through some sort of Republic process, how is he justified in passing and enforcing laws? If an elected ruler passes a law that anyone to wear a hat is killed, would it not be equally justified for one dissident to make their own government, passing legislation that wearing hats is acceptable?

A government may be defined as a person or a persons trying to enforce a rule or regulation. And if one government can be formed by one person, with legislation passed that possessing head fashion is illegal, so another one is not more wrong in making it legal.

By what right would one government have the right to tell one person to do, any more than the one person would have the right to tell what the government to do? Is there anything intrinsically distinctive of either the individual or the government that allows one to control the other without restraint? If this individual opposed the state’s regulation as much as the state opposed the individual’s actions, how is one more justified in controlling the other? There can be no appeal to one being intrinsically right and one being intrinsically wrong: there have been just as many bad governments as there have been bad rebels. So, if a party of people lived on an island, who would govern who, and how could it possibly be justified?

Take into consideration the lack of justification for government to rule anyone on this island, as for the United States to rule anyone on this land. Just as a government on the island can oppose an individual’s actions, so does our United States government oppose some of our actions, as they carry out their regulation. Use of Marijuana, a harmless practice, has been banned by the state. By what writ can the government jail Marijuana users, any more than Marijuana users can enforce their own regulation allowing Marijuana? If a police officer is justified in arresting members of society who do no harm but just commit a crime, then a citizen must be justified in arresting the government equally. There is no divine mandate given to anyone to rule, control, and kill others, be it any populace member or any government.

The similarities between the hypothetical island scenario and the United States government are undeniable. The United States government has no right to rule me any more than I have a right to rule those people who make up the government. Nor ar they justified in any of their legislation, and enforcing their legislation, whether it is outlawing murder, wearing hats, or believing what you want. The government has no right to pass such laws any more than I have the right to pass such laws.

The Middle

The Republic is a type of government where the people vote for one person to rule all. This varies from other types of governments where, more or less, a ruler maintains their power. By maintaining power, I do not mean by campaigning, but rather by an army theratening the populace. Such a ruler may be known as a dictator or a monarch. However, there are some who stipulate that a king’s rule is tryanny to the rule of an elected official. What can there be, honestly, to separate the rule of a dictator and the rule of an elected official? Historically, both are prone to commit the most atrocious acts, often defending themselves with the idea that they are defending their land.

Furthermore, both presidents and kings have accepted bribery and corruption. What can there be to separate a Dictatorship and a Republic? It still gives one person, out of thousands, possibly millions, it gives this one person control over the rest of the populace. And whether or not a Constitution exists in this Monarchy or Republic, kings and presidents have both trampled them to pieces in the wake of their search for power and wealth. There is one solitary difference between a dictator and a president: one is elected, one is not. The similarities between these two, though, is endless: their cruel search for power, the history of their relentlessness in eliminating enemies, they rule a population without restrain or control, save the remnants of their conscience.

The United States’ administration differs from that of a Latin Dictatorship in one way: how they are chosen. The United States goes through the process of election where we choose our president, but even this failed, as the majority voted against the president who seized power. If there is any proof of corruption of power, of how a president is nothing more than a dictator, then let it be this: our current president was voted against by the people, but he rules us anyway. His laws control our bodies, even though we did not choose him. George W. Bush is not in power because he was elected. He is in power because of his army, because of his secret, underground spy network which keeps tabs on +300 million American suspects. The difference between a Republic and a Dictatorship is election, but both governments give unfair power to one person to rule all people, and both are productive of heartless, cruel atrocities.

The Ending

By what right does a police officer have to detain me, anymore than I have the right to detain the police officer? How isa president more qualified to rule a populace than a dictator? Why is it so impossible to imagine a society that rules itself, with Direct Democracy, and no leaders or police officers?

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Punkerslut (or Andy Carloff) has been writing essays and poetry on social issues which have caught his attention for several years. His website http://www.punkerslut.com provides a complete list of all of these writings.

10 Items of the Well-Stocked Diaper Bag

September 28th, 2007

Does your diaper bag have everything you need in it? Of course, you have the basic items: diapers, wipes, bottles, etc. But are you equipped for any “baby situation” that could possibly arise? It may seem like a lot of gear, but if you bring along the following baby paraphernalia when you head out, you’ll be ready for just about anything.

1. Diapers-

Bring more than you think you’ll need. Even if your baby’s body works like clockwork, today could be the day when everything changes. Extra supplies also come in handy if your outing keeps you out longer than you had planned.

2. Baby Wipes-

Same goes for the wipes. They’re also great for cleaning spit-up off of little hands, folds of the neck and yourself.

3. Change of Clothes For Baby-

Make sure this is a complete change of clothes, including extra socks if the outfit requires. There is no such thing as a leak-proof diaper. Sometimes the mess can travel further than you can imagine.

4. Spare Shirt For Yourself-

There aren’t many moments more uncomfortable than walking around wearing your baby’s lunch or reeking of sour baby odors.

5. 2-Quart Sized Resealable Plastic Bags-

These are perfect for storing soiled clothing until you get home.

6. Extra Food-

Pack one more feeding than you think you’ll need. If today is the day your baby decides to increase his or her food intake, or, once again, if you are out longer than you planned, you’ll want to be prepared with enough food.

7. Plastic Changing Pad-

You’ll always have a clean place to lay your baby for diaper and clothing changes if you bring this along. Many times, these come with the diaper bag.

8. Blanket or Jacket-

If the weather becomes cooler while you’re out and you’re not prepared, you may be heading home sooner than you’d like. Also, some malls and grocery stores maintain cooler temperatures than you may have dressed your baby for.

9. Extra Pacifier-

Store one in a plastic sandwich bag. If one drops on the floor or mysteriously disappears, as pacifiers are wont to do, it’ll be no big deal.

10. Pediatrician’s Phone Number-

Hopefully, you’ll never need to call your baby’s doctor while you’re away from home. But if you do, you’ll be glad you have it.

Karen Bianchi is a freelance writer and the editor of http://www.AwesomeMomsNetwork.com, where you can find more articles just for moms.

Effective stress management with life management: How’s that New Year resolution coming?

September 28th, 2007

It’s the beginning of 2006, I’m sure you would have made that
resolution of yours by now, or have you already forgotten about
it and fallen back to your old ways?

Let me guess….I’m quite sure you belong to the majority whom
has already abandoned that project you had set for yourself, and
you might feel the stress and frustration for not getting the
results. Let me tell you - it is not your fault.

That goal or resolution you had set is probably the same one
every year, be it to make more money, keeping yourself fit or
getting up early everyday. The result will still be the same
dismay one as you fall into your same old ways. Don’t you wish
you had a way to change yourself permanently so that your goals
can be met?

You have within you the key to your problems, but that key is
hidden in a dark room and you cannot locate it.

Now how do you find that key? Put a light to it.

You are probably thinking, ‘yeah right what a stupid answer’.

Hear me out first, the light I am referring to is your
subconscious mind. Do you know that our mind is governed by this
powerful force that is residing inside of us? It is the
operating system that runs our life, just like a computer.
Everything you have seen and heard since your waking life, is
stored and kept in the reserves of your mind, waiting to be
retrieved and exploited for your success.

Our subconscious runs our daily life, taking care of the nitty
gritty so we do not have to consciously think about it.
Functions like breathing, blood circulation, eye blinking and
other functions are done with perfect efficiency. Can you
imagine the powers you will have if you can learn to control
your subconscious mind?

The main basis is that we must learn to shut out distractions
and mind chatter to be able to access the power of our
subconscious. There are various methods of training our
subconscious, including special breathing methods and meditation
techniques among others. On my website, I will discuss more
about these techniques in greater detail.

Brass: One of the Biggest Misnomers in History

September 28th, 2007

Aside from home ornaments and jewelries, you have probably heard
the term brass on brass bands. Do you know why a brass band is
called a “brass band”?

Some people may actually believe that brass bands are called as
such because the instruments the musicians use are made of
brass.

By definition, a brass band is a group of musicians who plays
brass instruments along with percussion instruments. Brass
instruments are technically defined as instruments whose tones
are produced by vibrating the lips through a resonator. Examples
of such brass instruments are the trumpet and the horn.

According to music scholars, the term “brass instruments” is a
misnomer. Not all brass instruments are made of brass. Some
brass instruments are actually made of wood like the cornett.
Some other woodwind instruments, on the other hand, are made of
brass but are not exactly categorized under the brass instrument
family. An example of this brass woodwind instrument is the
saxophone.

Therefore, brass bands are not called “brass bands” because the
instruments the musicians use are made of brass. The word
“brass” in the term brass band actually refers to the type of
sound an instrument makes.

But what exactly is “brass”?

Brass is an alloy or a combination of copper and zinc. Usually,
brass contains more than fifty percent of copper but it is
generally harder compared to copper. It is a malleable and
ductile alloy that can be hammered into leaves or strips and
designed according to one’s desire. These characteristics make
brass a prevalent option for decorating wares.

Brass has a yellowish color which makes it look so much like
gold. Because of this, brass has been used as a cheap substitute
for gold and the term “brassy” used to refer to denote one being
tasteless and showy.

There are different categories of brass depending on its zinc
and copper ratio. Alpha brasses contain less than thirty-five
percent zinc and are best utilized when they are cold.

Alpha-beta brass is 35%-45% zinc and is commonly used while it
is hot.

Beta brasses have 45%-50% zinc content. It can only be used
while hot and is preferred by metalworkers to use for casting.
Beta brasses are also harder and stronger compared to other
types of brass.

Brass that contains more than 50% percent zinc is called white
brass and is usually too brittle to use.

Calamine brass is a combination of calamine (a zinc ore) and
copper. It is a specialized type of brass because it uses a
different type of zinc (calamine) instead of the usual metallic
zinc used to create brass.

Another particular type of alpha brass is a brass that contains
75% zinc and 25% copper. It is called Prince’s metal or Prince
Rupert’s metal named after Prince Rupert of the Rhine who was a
commander of the Royalist cavalry during the English civil war.

Brass has been used all through out history in different fields
- may it be in art, or in trade and commerce. In ancient times,
Romans used brass to make coins, decorate their jewelry and to
adorn their armor.

After the middle ages, the use of brass increased as craftsmen
incorporated it in making clocks, plates, chandeliers and other
household items. A particular town called Dinant (currently
called Belgium) was the most profuse creators of brassware
during those times. They created large brass dishes and exported
these wares into the Netherlands.

The Islamic East was also known for creating brass wares and
braziers. Evidences of their craftsmanship can be found in
Venice where 15th century well-wrought bowls, dishes, and
candlesticks were shipped there by Eastern merchants.

Brass was also particularly popular in 18th century colonial
homes in North America. Brass chandeliers made in England and
the Netherlands in the 17th century are quite prevalent
adornments in these colonial houses. In addition to this, brass
drawers incorporated into furniture were considered to be
well-liked during that era.

Although brass has survived the time and enjoyed its popularity
during those ages, brass is considered as a modern alloy. It was
only utilized up until the 16th century. In ancient times,
people use the word “brass” as a term to refer to any alloy
mixed with copper. The brass that ancient people used to refer
to was probably bronze, an alloy of copper and tin. Nowadays,
people already have a clear distinction between brass and bronze.

Aside from being a popular material all through out history,
brass has also undergone different “misrepresentations” when it
comes to its name. But even if it is less regarded than gold,
brass has stood the test of time and has proven to be a material
of high class.

Fear , a World Disease

September 28th, 2007

Fear , a World Disease

Fear has spread around the world at the speed of a hurricane. Who is spreading this disease of fear? Humanity is. Why? It is because humanity has basic fears instilled into them when they are children, and now these fears have grown out of all proportion.

Let’s look at what we fear. Parents tell their children not to speak to strangers in case they are abducted. So children learn from an early age that the world is not a safe place! ‘Do not stray from home, or someone will take you away’.

We fear illness, cancer and aids. We are told ‘Don’t eat this and don’t eat that. Eat plenty of fruit and vegetables, if you don’t you increase your risk of disease and cancer!’ This fear about our diets is promoted weekly in the news.

We are sold insurance policies, medical insurance, home insurance, accident insurance, life insurance, all ‘just in case something happens.’ This reinforces our fears and securities, so we try harder to guard against them. Again, the idea that the world is not a safe place is being reinforced. Fear of lack, fear of not being abundant, fear of not having enough are all promoted and played upon. So we work harder, forfeit family life and mothers go out to work leaving their children to be brought up by strangers. All of this because we fear we do not have enough.

Fear of what other people think about us, is very high on our list of insecurities. We judge other people and other people judge us! We even live our lives doing what other people want us to do rather than being true to ourselves, because we are afraid of being judged by them.

Throughout our history, governments, monarchs and religion have all controlled the people by instilling fear. Why? Fearful people can be swayed, persuaded to do what commonsense tells them not to. Fear has been programmed into our psyches. For lifetime after lifetime we have been steeped in fear. The stress and anxiety of all these fears compromises our health physically and mentally.

The sad fact is that the more we fear, the more we draw our fears to us. We are very powerful beings; we manifest our beliefs, thus creating our reality. The more we fear, the more we draw it into our lives and disaster strikes. Stop for a moment and think about what you really fear. Are they actually your fears or are they someone else’s? Are they government based or media based? Are they the Truth? What do you really think? Sharpen your awareness so that can stand back and take a look at what is going on around you. Look at your life and how you live it. Do you need to be in so much fear?

On an individual level, we can stop this dis-ease. We can clear it, let go of it and not ‘buy into it’. If we set the intention that we will not be swayed by fear and that we always wish to see the higher truth behind a matter. If we just use our common sense, then it will be the beginning of curing fear - the world disease.

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About the Author

Robina Hearle is a Flower Essence Therapist and Maker, Reiki Master and Chartered Physiotherapist. You can find her unique flower essences at www.rosecottagefloweressences.co.uk

Recipe for a Healthy Relationship

September 28th, 2007

First off, it is important to ask yourself what you consider a
real relationship to be. You need to understand what your needs
and desires are from another person, and what you are willing to
give them. This way, you can see early in your first dates, if
you wish to continue and work towards a future together, and if
the other person feels the same of course (both sides count).

Once you have decided to have an official relationship, you both
need to remember what brought the two of you together in the
first place. For instance, what attracted you to each other both
physically and emotionally? What do you admire about his or her
personality? This will help not taking the other for granted,
which can often happen after two people have been together for a
long time. This does not mean the love is fading, but it does
mean that there is lack of effort. People tend to get lazy after
a while, because they feel comfortable and safe. This problem
can be solved when both people are willing to make the time and
effort.

Everyone is independent in their own beliefs and ideas about
things, so never expect a person to always see things your way.
However, it is important to have similar expectations out of a
relationship, if you wish to avoid frequent arguments. Look for
things like whether or not it is important for the both of you
to see each other everyday, or have sex often. While seeing each
other on a daily basis seems wonderful and healthy to some
people, others may feel smothered and need space to have some
alone time. Or if sex is on the top of your list, but is not on
your partners, you might want to consider that, unless you do
not mind waiting or taking care of yourself once in a
while…depending on how long you have to wait!

Patience is one of the main keys to a healthy relationship.
There are times when our partner will not respond in a way in
which is pleasing to us, but this does not mean we have to take
it so seriously or personally. Always slow down, take a deep
breath and think of reasons why your partner may be acting a
certain way. Assuming and jumping to conclusions is always an
unhealthy step to take because it shows your partner that they
are not entitled to act freely and they feel attacked, not to
mention it shows that you automatically assume the worst of
them. Give your partner some time and let them know that you
will be there for them when they are ready to talk. No matter
what the situation may be, patience is golden in a relationship,
unless your partner never wants to discuss matters with you
(which would mean you need counseling or leave the relationship).

Honesty is also at the top of everyone’s list when it comes to
what people want out of a relationship. A person needs to know
that they can trust their mate because it builds a zone of
safety and comfortableness around them. They need to know that
they can at least rely on their loving partner to tell them the
truth, no matter what. Being human means NOT being perfect,
which means we will make mistakes. Now, we should not let that
fact lead us to making mistakes we already know are wrong ahead
of time. If your partner deliberately makes mistakes or you
knowingly make mistakes, it shows that you or your partner lacks
respect and care for the other. This is unhealthy for the
relationship. What is healthy however, is realizing that the
mistake you committed is a mistake. You or your partner need to
know that what they did was wrong and they need to feel the
sympathy for what they did. Once you or partner have realized
this, you can then figure out a way of how you will confess your
wrong doings to the other.

Being accepted is a requirement in all relationships. No one
desires to be with someone who judges them and rejects them for
who they are or certain traits of their personalities. That is
the beauty of being individuals. We are entitled to our own
decisions, hobbies, goals, etc. When some one truly loves you,
they love the whole package you come in, which means the
physical you, the emotional you and the dreams and hobbies that
come along with you. The person you choose to be with should
support your dreams and respect your hobbies.

Kindness and thoughtfulness are both equally important in a
healthy relationship. Your partner needs to be considerate of
your feelings and treat you with care and kindness, as if you
were a sweet delicate rose. He or she does not need to attend
you like a babysitter, but should be there for you when you need
him or her, or when you do not need them, but just because you
want them. They should just want to be with you as well. The
point of a relationship is not depending on each other for our
self- health, but being a part of the others life. You should be
responsible for your own happiness and esteem, not your partner.

So remember, a healthy relationship is when you and your partner
can be yourselves, be honest with each other, be patient, accept
one another, be kind and remembering to be thoughtful. With an
open and caring relationship like this, your love is sure to
grow and grow like beautiful trees do, because they receive the
proper care from the sun and the rest of nature. Our partner is
our sun and water, as we are to them. Together, you can keep
your relationship happy and healthy.

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