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A Startling Fact About The Dangers Of Labeling

October 29th, 2007

Quite often, we use labels on ourselves and others without even realizing that we are doing it. And most often, they are negative. What we don’t realize is how much theses labels can hurt us and others.

The challenge is, what ever you state to yourself repetitively, even if you know on a conscious level that it is not true, your subconscious mind believes it.

For example, after misplacing something, have you ever said to your self, “I am so stupid.” You know that you are just annoyed but your subconscious takes you seriously.

Once your subconscious mind believes something, it sets out to confirm it’s belief and it can self sabotage your efforts to change and grow.

In fact, you may be holding several labels on yourself that you are not even aware of because you have been saying and believing them for so long. They may be about how well you believe you can learn, cook, drive or even show up on time.

These labels literately control your life and stop you from moving forward.

In addition, when we use labels on other people, just as in judging, we start to see only the label. Labels are stagnating and do not allow the other person to grow.

People will look for information that confirms the label that has been placed on a person. They will speak to the person according to their label, and don’t hear anything beyond it.

People will literately ignore anything that isn’t inline with their belief about the other person and the label they put on them.

For example, if you believed that a person was clumsy and always stated that they were clumsy, you would ignore all the times that they walked or did anything with grace and ease.

Then if anything happened that even remotely looked clumsy you then would say, “see, what did I tell you, you’re always so clumsy.”

This can make the person very nervous in front of you and the more the person worries the more likely it is for something to happen. It then becomes a self-fulfilling prophecy.

I have seen some men do this to women, when they believe that all women are too emotional. The woman could go for months and not be upset with anything then something happens, he will go, “see, what did I tell you, women always get upset.” All along ‘forgetting’ when they, themselves were upset.

Sometimes these men will even provoke the other person, by saying to them repeatedly, now don’t get upset. This is treating the other person is a way that you believe they will react which in turn creates the very behaviour that you were hoping to avoid in the first place.

People see and hear what they want to believe. And compounding that is, what you see and hear is filtered through your bias. So in the end you receive only a partial message that leaves out anything that contradicts your beliefs.

Sometimes people hold back information from the other person in the hopes confusing them to keep their belief alive about the other person’s abilities. This creates the behaviour that the other person wants to prove.

Labeling can also leads to criticism, bigotry and hatred. Especially when small children are listening to us. They are learning how to act in society and repeat what they hear, which in turn affects how their future will turn out.


    Some labels are:

  • Black
  • White
  • Slow
  • Stupid
  • ADHD
  • Trouble maker
  • Bureaucrats
  • Hothead
  • Short
  • Tall
  • Smart
  • Good / bad
  • Right / wrong

Even positive labels can hurt and annoy. There are people who have said that they are tired of always hearing that they are the cute, good, smart one etc. It stifles who they are and their potential to grow if they believe they must stay with in the label.

Ask yourself, what labels you use on yourself and others. Start noting how often you say them and ask yourself, do you believe they are true. Then start replacing them with sayings that are more productive in growing to your own potential.

While you are doing that, contemplate on this quote.
Everything that irritates us about others can lead us to an understanding of ourselves. –Carl Jung

Maria Boomhower is known as The Master Communicator. She has won awards for excellence in her field. Her background includes supervision, training, video productions, photo journalism and running sub-press centres. Maria also spent several years studying metaphysics and quantum theories, which enabled her to bring in the human aspects of communication and perceptions to assist people in overcoming their barriers. You can find out more at:Communication Mastery And check out her ebooks and workshops.

Storing Coffee Beans - To Freeze or not to Freeze, that is the Question

October 18th, 2007

There are many theories about the best way to store coffee beans or ground coffee to retain freshness. One of the theories is to put your beans or ground coffee in the freezer for later use. Is this method the best way to store coffee? Let’s explore the idea.

Freezing seems like a universally accepted way to keep foods fresher longer. Freezing is a great way to store many of our everyday foods. Vegetables, fruits, meat, bread, and even butter can be given a life extension through freezing. In fact, freezing often retains many of the important vitamins and minerals in foods. Unfortunately, coffee may not share the same benefits from freezing.

There are 4 main enemies of our precious coffee beans: moisture, light, heat and air. At first glance, freezing doesn’t seem like it should be too damaging. Appearances, however, can be deceiving.

Coffee beans have been roasted in order to enhance flavor. The beans are also porous. Unfortunately a freezer can contain many other foods which have odors. The porous beans can absorb the flavors of many other frozen foods. Flavored coffees can be pleasant, but no one wants to drink seafood or garlic flavored coffee.

The beans can also absorb unwanted moisture. Moisture can deteriorate the coffee beans resulting in loss of flavor. The more you take coffee out of the freezer and put it back in, the more moisture can be absorbed into the bean. If you do decide to freeze some coffee, only freeze it once. The more you take it in and out of the freezer, the more damage you do.

The oils in roasted coffee beans are an important part of the flavor of a good cup of coffee. Unfortunately, freezing breaks down the aromatic oils in roasted coffee. Breaking down the oils means taking away flavor, giving another good reason to stay away from freezing coffee.

Ultimately, freezing coffee is probably not the best idea. Keep coffee stored in a cool, dry, airtight container away from light. Freezing coffee is possible, and may be alright if you only freeze it once. The resulting loss of flavor and quality might not make it worth it to you. Your best bet is to buy only enough coffee that you and your family can consume within 1-2 weeks. Enjoy it at the peak of its flavor!

Corinne is a regular author for The Coffee Site, a comprehensive coffee website. For information and resources on gourmet
coffee visit The Coffee Site.com.

Is Coffee Bad for You? New Study Results are Questionable

October 15th, 2007

Last week at the American College of Cardiology’s annual meeting, researchers presented the results of a Greek study which found that men who drank more than one cup of coffee a day had 30% higher levels of an inflammatory chemical called CRP in their blood. For women, the news was even worse: a 38% increase in CRP.

Now that’s a pretty serious finding. Elevated levels of CRP have been shown to increase your risk of heart disease, cancer, Alzheimer’s disease, osteoporosis, depression, and many other conditions.

As someone who researches the effects of foods on inflammation, the study caught my attention. I should also disclose that I am also a coffee lover. In fact, I recently wrote an article on the health benefits of coffee. (If you interested, that article can be found here.)

But here’s the scoop on the Greek study: It turns out that coffee drinkers also 1)are more likely to smoke; 2)exercise less; and 3)eat fewer vegetables than their non-coffee drinking counterparts.

Let’s review. All three of these factors (smoking, sedentary lifestyle, low intake of vegetables) are known to increase inflammation. There is no solid evidence that drinking coffee increases inflammation. And yet the headlines all read: “Drinking Coffee Increases Inflammation.”

Whether or not you enjoy java, inflammation is something to be concerned about, as it has now been linked to virtually all of today’s most common illnesses. But I don’t think I’m going change my coffee consumption based on this study.

The best way to reduce inflammation? Don’t smoke, exercise, and eat your vegetables!

copyright, 2006, Monica Reinagel

Monica Reinagel is the creator of the IF Rating System, a scientific method of determine the inflammatory effects of foods. She is the author of The Inflammation Free Diet Plan: The Scientific Way to Lose Weight, Banish Pain, Prevent Disease and Slow Aging. (2006, McGraw-Hill).

ALMOST HARVEST TIME -with a hint of summer still in the air

October 13th, 2007

Summer still seems to be hanging on, so I know I am not ready
yet to turn on that oven. This is the time for lighter meals
such as soups, salads and fresh fruits.

We can continue to grill, or for make one-pot top of the stove
meals such as a great Chicken Cacciatore, paired with those
luscious September tomatoes and a ripe pear and cheese dessert.
We still seem to be getting into a schedule and I know I am
trying to do simple meals. I have delicious recipes for you this
month to make your transition a little easier.

Table Decorating Ideas

As I reluctantly put away my summer candles and beach chairs, I
give into mums and pumpkins. Time to change the light-colored
tablecloths and place mats for more autumn tones.

For a table top idea, I always like to use mini-pumpkins and
large silk leaves that you can buy at craft stores.

Mums in small pots can be wrapped with burlap and tied with
raffia and mixed in with the pumpkins and leaves.

Sunflowers in any size add such a brilliant color to any table.
Autumn doesn’t have to be all browns and dark reds.

Add red ripe pomegranates, green pears and purple plums.

Tuck in collard greens or cabbage leaves for inexpensive fillers.

I always have lots of edibles on my centerpieces to add
textures and colors. It is also a less expensive way to decorate
than just using all flowers. And you can eat them afterwards,
too.

September Recipes:

Even if you have not tried Moroccan–style food before, or may
think you won’t like it, live a little- try something new.
Although this recipe may have a few spices you are not familiar
with, it is not spicy - just wonderfully rich in flavors. This
is a very mild version- you can increase the amount of
flavorings to suit your tastes. This soup is incredibly
flavorful.

Lentils are wonderfully good-for-you foods since they are high
in complex carbohydrates, protein and fiber and they are
extremely low in fat. They readily absorb all of the flavor of
spices and herbs. Lentils and other legumes have all the
nutrients recognized as important in preventing heart disease,
cancer and obesity. People have been eating legumes for
thousands of years and these foods are the main source of
protein for people in many cultures all over the world. So
experiment and enjoy this healthy dish.
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Moroccan Tomato and Lentil Soup

Makes 8+ servings.

1 (35-ounce) can whole tomatoes, drained

1/2 medium onion, chopped

1 large celery rib (including leaves), chopped

2 tablespoons butter

1/2 teaspoon turmeric

1 teaspoon black pepper

1/2 teaspoon cinnamon

1/2 cup chopped fresh parsley

1 can (15.5-ounce) chickpeas with its liquid

1 cup lentils, rinsed and soaked in hot water for 15 minutes or
until soft

4-5 cups vegetable or chicken broth

1 cup raisins

2 tablespoons julienned fresh basil 1 teaspoon dried oregano 2
cups fresh baby spinach, washed 1 teaspoon kosher salt Freshly
ground pepper

Garnish: Fresh lemon wedges

Coarsely purée tomatoes in a food processor and set aside. In a
heavy 4-quart pot, cook onion and celery in butter over
moderately low heat, stirring occasionally until softened. Do
not brown. Add turmeric, black pepper, and cinnamon and cook for
another 2-3 minutes.

Add tomatoes, chickpeas, lentils, broth, raisins, oregano, salt
and pepper, and half of the basil and parsley.

Cook on a medium-low simmer, partially covered- pot, for 1 hour
until lentils and chickpeas are soft. Stir occasionally. Add
more broth if too thick. Add fresh spinach, remaining parsley
and basil just before serving, and add salt and pepper to taste.
Stir and ladle into your soup tureen or individual bowls.

Serve with a simple green salad and crusty whole wheat bread,
with extra virgin olive oil for dipping. YUM!

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It’s Time for Pears:

Fresh Pears with Saga Blue Cheese

Here is one of my most favorite, and quickest, desserts or
snacks. I have served this many times, and it is especially good
when pears are at their peak..

It can’t get any easier than this:

3 ripe pears – Bartlett or D’Anjou (make sure they are ripe but
not too soft) 2 cups of cold water mixed with 2 tablespoons of
lemon juice

4 ounces of Saga Blue Cheese, at room temperature

24 Walnut halves

Wash and slice pears into eight pieces, cores removed. Dip
slices into water and lemon juice for a minute or so. This will
prevent them from turning brown. Remove and pat dry. (This step
can be eliminated if you are serving them right away.)

Spread softened cheese on one half of each slice. Top with a
walnut and serve.

This is delicious with port wine or cider. You can also use any
other kind of soft cheese as you prefer.

I hope you enjoyed this preview of fall. Enjoy the best of the
season.

Visit Marybeth at www.cook-with-confidence.com and contact her
with any thoughts or questions at:
Marybeth@cook-with-confidence.com

A Brief History Of Green Tea

October 10th, 2007

The first tea plants known were thought to be grown in Yunnan Province in southern China. From there they spread to other parts of Asia that had the right types of soil and weather conditions. The custom of drinking tea is said to have originated in China with the emperor Shen Nong. Regarded as an iconoclast of Chinese medicine, he introduced the tea plant to people around the year 2700 B.C. The classic on Chinese Tea, Cha jing (The Book of Tea), written by the scholar Lu Yu in A.D. 760, recounts Shen Nong’s efforts to discover the medicinal effectiveness of over three hundred varieties of roots, grass, and tree barks. Legend has it that he would try all of them on himself first and whenever he ingested something poisonous he would cleanse himself by eating tea leaves.

It seems certain that tea leaves were initially eaten as a medicine long before tea became a popular drink. In fact, there are still some hill tribes in southern China, Thailand, and northern Myanmar that still eat pickled tea leaves, and only until recent times were they aware that a drink could be brewed from the same leaves!

According to Kouga, the ancient dictionary written during the Later Han dynasty (A.D. 25-220), people in Sichuan Province of western China, compressed steamed leaves into hard bricks to help maintain the quality of the tea over a greater period (very handy when transporting, too). When making a beverage they would season the mixture with ginger or onion. However, this early concoction would not qualify as a conventional beverage in the usual sense because its intended use was medicinal.

During the Three Kingdoms period (221-65), the popularity of tea saw a rapid increase. One cause for this was the widening increase in the practice of Buddhism, which was beginning to gain a wider following. Buddhism prohibits the drinking of alcohol and so that boosted the demand for tea.

During the Sui dynasty (581-618), the custom of drinking tea, previously limited to the aristocracy and Buddhist monks, began to filter through to other classes. In the mid-eighth century, tea shops sprung up, and gradually tea became an indispensable beverage for ordinary city-dwellers.

It was around this time that Lu Yu, who came from the tea producing center of Hubei Province, wrote his treatise on tea. The range of Yu’s work is impressive. It covers the origins, methods of plant cultivation, the types of utensils used, the best ways to prepare and drink tea, and tales relating to tea and tea-growing. His expansive compendium of information spanned three volumes, opening with the propitious line: “There are good luck trees in the south that are beneficial to a person’s health.” When published the book met with great acclaim and is still looked upon today as a bible of sorts concerning tea.

Tea arrived in Japan from China. It was brought by Japanese Buddhist monks who accompanied the special representatives sent to China in the early Heian period (794-1185). Among the monks who traveled to China were Saicho (767-822), Kukai (774-835), and Eichu (743-816). The first record of the custom of tea-drinking in Japan appeared in Nihon koki (Notes on Japan), compiled in the Heian period. Eichu, a priest at the temple of Bonshakuji in Omi, Aichi Prefecture, returned to China in 815. The Nihon koki records that when Emperor Saga (reign, 809-23) visited Omi, Eichu invited him to his temple and served him sencha, suggesting that drinking tea, a popular pastime in Tang times, had also become fashionable in Japan’s intellectual circles. Roun-shu, an anthology of Chinese poetry written in Japanese in 814, also mentions tea-tasting.

At that time, tea probably came in the form of hard bricks, as described by Lu Yu. Compressed into a brick shape into a brick shape, tea was not only easy to transport but also held up better during the long voyage from China. This was most likely the type of tea brought to Japan, even though leaf tea was also used in China at that time. The brick was first warmed over a flame and then a portion was broken off by hand or shaved off with a knife. The shavings were ground with a mortar into a powder, which was added to a pan of hot water and brewed and then was served in a bowl.

Emperor Saga tried to encourage the spread of tea by demanding provinces in the Kinki region around Kyoto to grow the plant. He established tea gardens in one district of Kyoto, and started growing and processing it for the use of physicians attached to the court. This imperial tea, however, found use mostly in rituals performed by the aristocracy; the beverage had yet to become an item for consumption by the common people.

Ordinary Japanese only began to drink tea much later, after Eisai (1141-1215), the founder of the Rinzai sect of Zen Buddhism, brought back a new type of seedling from Sung-dynasty China. With it he introduced a new way of drinking tea which was known as the “matcha style.” Eisai encouraged the cultivation of tea trees, and his Kissa yojoki (Health Benefits of Tea) tied tea-drinking to longevity and launched tea in Japan on a large scale.

About the Author: Michael Ganzeveld is a graduate of Iowa State University and writes for the online health site GreenTeaPhd. To use this article the author asks that you link to the following url: http://www.greenteaphd.com

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A Surfing Lesson

October 9th, 2007

I’ve never surfed in my life. Sometimes people tell me I look like a surfer, but never once have I been on a board out in the water. It fascinates me though. It was about a year ago that I was standing at the water’s edge with a good friend. She was a surfer who had competed professionally and had hosted a surfing show on TV. We were watching surfers and I was asking questions about waves, boards, techniques, etc.

That day I got much more than a lesson on surfing. I got a lesson on life. My friend was telling me how to “catch a wave.” She explained that before a wave comes, you must be moving in the same direction as the wave and at the same speed, otherwise, the wave will simply pass you by and you will not “catch it.” If you are lying on the board, on your stomach, and paddling fast enough toward the shore, you will be synchronized with the wave when it reaches you. You will then be able to ride it, stand up on your board, and surf! Simple stuff, huh? Makes perfect sense. It’s one of those things you think about afterward and say, “I probably could have figured that out on my own.” It’s so simple that I had missed it. When it was explained to me, I instantly understood and it was as if the universe was speaking to me.

How many thousands of applications does this have metaphorically in our lives? What about that job we want? Are we up to speed? What about that partner we want? Are we “traveling fast enough” to synchronize with them when they come by? Or will they just keep going toward the shore as we paddle slowly? So many people want the perfect job, the perfect mate, the perfect life. I’ll tell you a little secret…the opportunity for these things comes by EVERY day. In fact, it comes by several times a day. But have we prepared ourselves for it? How fast are YOU paddling? Are you headed for the shore? Are you swimming in circles? Are you moving at the same speed and in the same direction as your envisioned “soulmate”? …or are you expecting them to come along and make you complete and bring you “up to speed” financially, emotionally, etc?

A person who is already surfing is not going to be interested in a slow paddler, or a person paddling the wrong way, or not paddling at all. Work on your SELF and the rest will happen automatically. Stop looking for the surfer to come along and pull you up on their board…you’ll cause both of you to fall off. Get yourself up to speed, catch that wave, and then you can surf with the others.

I’m suggesting to you that you decide today to move at the pace and in the direction of whatever it is you want in life. Stagnation or minimal movement is problematic. Prepare yourself to catch that wave and ride it! I’ll see you at the beach!

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10 Leadership Qualities +1

October 2nd, 2007

Great Leaders are optimists first and foremost. Their tendency is to interact according to Henry Ford’s observation, “whether you think you can or think you can’t - you are right.” Because the buck must stop somewhere and because the dynamic of authority dictates that all delegated authorities are themselves subject to authority, they understand that being a leader is far more than a title. The ten qualities listed herein are based on these assumptions and are just the beginning of developing the character of a great leader. Here’s to a great beginning!

1. Great Leaders are mission inclined and ensure the survival of the vision. By making certain that the principles of that vision are daily implemented, the Great Leader indicates a firm grasp of the mission and visions of the organization and is in agreement with them, making a conscious choice to submit to and support them.

2. Great Leaders are providers, oriented to whatever the individual or team cannot supply for itself. The leader is often called to provide for needs the group is virtually unaware of. It becomes the role of the leader to first identify the need, and then to provide a means of fulfillment.

3. Great Leaders are motivated by the welfare of the team. The motive is never self-promotion, self-aggrandizement. The great leader self-checks frequently. The welfare of the team will always be in line with the greater mission, if integrity is at the base.

4. Great Leaders are always ready to provide the tools necessary for achieving the goals of the team. Individual and team achievement furthers the purpose of the organizational mission. Great Leaders must assess the needs and provide the tools, as well as the instruction necessary to attain and maintain optimum productivity.

5. Great Leaders have great integrity (wholeness, soundness) and assume the role of keeper of ethics. Leaders must articulate the ethical expectations necessary to maintain the wholeness and soundness of the team, as well as the individual members. The two are inseparable.

6. Great Leaders are consistently teachable. Information flows from the top. Zest for information and knowledge will do the same. An eager to learn leader will generate followers enthusiastic about the process as well.

7. Great Leaders are always willing to step aside rather than compromise the team. We have established that the Great Leader is motivated by the welfare of the team rather than his or her own agenda, and as a result, will step aside if necessary to insure it. The same is true of the Great Leader’s dedication to team unity and productivity. The leader will never play one member against another as a tactic, realizing that unity of purpose, when grounded in the integrity of the vision, will always lead to increased productivity and progress.

8. Great Leaders do not take control, but accept surrendered control. Seized control will ultimately end in rebellion and insurrection. Conversely, cooperation always follows surrendered control, the voluntary submission to authority. (Note: sub=under, and mission=vision, i.e., a voluntary stepping under, in a supporting capacity, to the mission of the team, the reason for its continued existence.)

9. Great Leaders understand the awesome responsibility of guiding human beings.
At any level - - in any organization - - for any reason - - without reservation

10. Great Leaders understand the difference between passion for excellence and passion for power. Passion for excellence is fervor and zeal for fineness and quality. Passion for power is lust and greed for control, at any cost. These two highlight the enormous variance between Authority and Power.

Plus One…

Great Leaders always lead by example. The Great Leader is always willing, at any point, to walk out in front of the group. The Great Leader is never merely an observer. All other qualities will flow naturally from this characteristic at the very heart of Great Leadership.

Karin Syren is a certified coach specializing in EffectivenessCoaching. She has over 25 years business experience and has played key roles in independent creative enterprises, non-profit and Fortune 500 companies. Karin has helped leaders at all levels to increase their effectiveness through increased awareness. Visit her website at http://www.solushunz.com to arrange for your complementary EffectivenessCoaching consultation.

Preparing Atlantic Lobster Tails

October 1st, 2007

When you cook frozen lobster tails, it is best to thaw them first. You can either thaw them in a microwave or in the refrigerator. If you thaw them in the refrigerator, it will take anywhere from eight to twelve hours for them to fully thaw and same as with beef, if you decide to thaw them in the microwave, you will need to cook them immediately after thawing. Thawing the lobster tails before cooking will make them much more tender than if you were to cook them frozen.

Baking

Many people like to broil lobster tails but it is rather difficult to keep the sections from overcooking, so it is a little safer to bake them.
-Once the lobster tails are thawed, you can brush them lightly with olive oil or butter and them put them in the oven at 400 degrees for approximately 8 to 10 minutes (you will need to cook them a little longer than this if they are still frozen).
-Once they are done, there are many different additions you can serve with the lobster tails, such as lemon slices or one of many different sauces.

Boiling

Another method of cooking lobster tails is to boil them. You will need to put a large pot of water on the stove to boil.
-Add in one teaspoon of salt for every quart of water
-Once the water is boiling, you drop the lobster tails into it, which will cease the boiling for a short time. Once the boiling begins again, you will lower the heat to medium, or medium high, and this is when the timer should begin.
-For 1 to 3 ounces of meat, you will want to boil them for approximately 3 to 5 minutes. For every ounce after that, you will need to add one to two minutes to the boiling time.

Steaming

Steaming lobster tails is another cooking option that doesn’t take very long-only about five to seven minutes. You can use water as the liquid for steaming, or you can use white wine (using white wine can also double as a sauce after the lobster tails are finished cooking). It is often a good idea to stick a wooden skewer through the lobster tails, since steaming them causes them to shrivel slightly.

Broiling Large Lobster Tails

When cooking a large lobster tail, the trick will be to cook it all the way through without scorching or drying out the top. If you do cook it too long, the meat will be tough and chewy. The best way to approach broiling a large lobster tail is to first thaw it, then cut open the top of the shell lengthwise. You will need a heavy pair of kitchen shears to do this, and you will want to cut just deep enough that you do not cut the bottom of the shell. You may need to use a large knife to cut through the meat and you will then need to split the shell open. Then, you will put it in a roasting pan just underneath the broiler. Cutting the lobster tail open like this will help expose the meat to the broiler so that it will cook evenly and prevent the shell from burning or drying out.

Cooking Lobsters “Piggy Back”

Another way of broiling lobster is what is referred to as “piggy back.” This method can also be used when grilling lobsters as well. Basically, what you will need to do is remove the meat from the inside of the lobster shell for cooking. This will help the lobster tail cook more thoroughly and evenly.

-Cut the outer shell down the center, leaving the fan tail and the underside membrane both intact

-Next carefully lift the meat through the slit in the shell

-Place the lobster meat on a roasting pan (in a small amount of water to prevent drying) membrane side up.

-Then place the roasting pan and lobster tails just under the broiler. You will cook these at the same amount of time required for boiling, the only difference being that you will need to turn them over and baste them again halfway through

-You will need to do the same to remove the lobster meat from the shell if you are going to use the “piggy back” method for grilling. You will want to cook the membrane side first in grilling, as well. Then, just as with broiling, you will need to turn the lobster tail halfway through, and baste it again, as well.

Daniel Urmann is a contributor and author for the website Atantic Lobster Tails.

Eating Can Be an Adventure - Keep It Interesting, Simple, Healthy, and Fun

September 15th, 2007

I have been preparing my own meals for many years. Like most
people, I suppose, I would fix only familiar dishes. That has
changed. For health benefits, I began eating more fruits and
vegetables. Trying unfamiliar vegetables and fruits made eating
interesting and more enjoyable. Many of those new fruits and
vegetables became favorites. I tried many other foods that were
new to me, for example, whole grains, various types of beans,
seeds and nuts. Many of those became favorites. Using unfamiliar
ways of preparing food also made eating more of an adventure. A
few of my favorites are pesto (pureed greens and oil), raw foods
that are normally eaten cooked, and unusual combinations such as
bread with peanut butter, covered with pizza sauce.

The circumstances of my life encouraged more changes. Making do
with a small amount of money gave me a liking for oatmeal,
beans, and other very low-cost foods. Growing up on a farm and
having a garden each year provided new fruits and vegetables to
try and enjoy. Having been raised to ‘waste not, want not’,
helped me not to pass up unusual foods: gifts such as my
sister’s ‘beans ‘n’ greens’, the landlord’s parogies, and my
son’s homemade deer jerky. The point is: The changes in my diet
gave me more foods to enjoy. I now know that I can like a great
many unfamiliar foods. At first some of those foods may not be
enjoyed because they are so different and are unrecognized as a
‘goody’. For me, that recognition is typically made gradually by
many small trials. Once that recognition is made, the food ‘hits
the spot’ and can be nutritious, healthy and convenient. Then I
have yet another food to enjoy.

The process of trying new foods and having them become enjoyed
fare, makes eating an adventure. Eating becomes more interesting
and more enjoyed. Meals become more than a time to enjoy what I
have enjoyed before. Awareness is heightened by experiencing the
unfamiliar. There is anticipation of discovery of a new
enjoyment. Meals become pay-off times of previous
experimentation efforts. The food is more appreciated for having
creative effort invested in it. Perhaps I have gained a health
benefit, saved some prep time, saved money that can be used for
some other purpose, and have added to my repertoire of pleasure.

A cookbook might help you get ideas about what new foods to try.
A cookbook about a particular ethnic food or some other
unfamiliar category of food would be particularly helpful. Buy
one or get one from the library. Some ethnic categories are
Middle Eastern, Southeast Asian, African, soul food, Southern,
and Mexican. Other categories are health food, quick and easy
recipes, weight loss diets, vegetarian recipes, and using food
from the garden. You might even enjoy some obscure categories
such as pioneer/early American food, Native American food, wild
food, early European food, food from storage, and low cost food.
I particularly like quick and easy cookbooks.

If you need help becoming comfortable with trying new foods, try
small changes:

- Eat breakfast foods at lunch or supper. Or try a vegetable at
breakfast. If you normally have a sandwich at bedtime, have a
salad instead. - Try different brands from the ones you normally
use.

- Leave out one or more ingredients from your standard recipes.
Or change the proportions - a little more of this or a little
less of that.

- Substitute a similar ingredient for a usual ingredient, for
instance, orange juice concentrate or lemon juice instead of
vinegar on a salad.

- It may help to eat smaller portions but include a greater
number of foods at each meal. That may help you develop a liking
for variety.

- Try unusual combinations such as cooked chicken and raw fruit
cut in small pieces and mixed together…or pizza sauce on a
peanut butter open-face sandwich…or a teaspoon of honey or
pancake syrup on a dark green, leafy salad.

Salads are great to experiment with. Many vegetables can be
enjoyed in a salad. Try various amounts and combinations of
carrot, tomato, cabbage, broccoli, bell pepper, cucumber, or
other vegetables you enjoy. Use other types of greens: romaine
lettuce, bibb lettuce, collards, mache, and basil. Dressing can
be just oil, pesto, syrup, tomato sauce, ketchup, fruit juices,
mayonnaise, peanut butter softened with oil, and even jam or
jelly. Dressing can be used to soften the strong flavor of raw
cabbage, basil, or dark green lettuce.

The subtle flavors of many vegetables are easily hidden with
anything more than tiny amounts of vinegar, lemon juice and
tomato sauce. Try a salad without any dressing to enjoy the full
flavor of the vegetables. The vegetables can be proportioned to
subdue or enhance particular flavors - use less basil to lessen
its pungent flavor, use more carrot to boost its flavor and
texture. Other salad ingredients can be nuts, peanuts, coconut,
cereal, baked beans, and fruit. Some ingredients I like are raw
beets, raw potato and raw sweet potato.

Watch out for raw greens and other raw vegetables that cause
digestion system upset. It only takes small amounts of some raw
vegetables to cause a lot of discomfort. Use small quantities of
an untested food to begin with until you know how well your body
deals with it. The body will adapt to some foods over a period
of weeks or months but results vary from food to food and, I
suppose, from individual to individual. Some raw foods I avoid
because of previous bad experiences are green beans, asparagus,
and beet leafs. I don’t eat more than a tablespoon of raw
parsley pesto in a day. The same for kale. I don’t eat more than
the equivalent of 1/4-cup pesto of raw Chinese cabbage.

To develop a liking for a new food, eat it at the beginning of a
meal when you are most hungry. Being hungry greatly improves the
ability to appreciate the taste of a food. Eat only a small
amount of the new food at each sitting. For some foods, a tiny
bite, just enough to sense its flavor, is enough to handle at
first. Don’t give up easily on a food that at first seems too
strange to be enjoyed. Some foods will require dozens of ‘get
acquainted’ trials.

Other strategies for liking new foods:

- Read about nutrition and health to know the benefits of a
changed diet.

- Be aware of how much time you spend shopping for food and
other food related tasks. Would you rather have some of that
time available for other things? Non-traditional foods can use
preparation methods that take less time.

- Make a choice about the money you spend for food. Atypical
foods may be less expensive than traditional and popular food.
Getting the most bang for the buck can add to the pleasure of
eating.

- Make a decision to increase the pleasure in your life. Your
success in developing a fondness for a new food, will encourage
you to try other kinds of new pleasures.

Have reasons in mind to try unusual foods:

- to be able to enjoy healthy foods.

- to enjoy low-prep-time foods.

- to use what you can grow in your garden.

- for the satisfaction of acquiring new pleasures.

- to increase your enjoyment of eating.

Know why liking new foods is difficult. This is the
know-your-enemy principle. It seems to help me. People have an
instinctive protection against eating toxic foods. Nature has
provided you with a mistrust for new, unfamiliar food. If the
food is enough different from what you are used to, it will not
be immediately liked. This is a necessary instinct that keeps
you from poisoning yourself by eating the wrong mushroom, for
example. Evolution along with chemistry eliminated the
gulp-down-anything individuals from our gene pool. The
little-by-little taste-developers survived.

If it’s the sugar, salt and spices you depend upon to enjoy
food, other flavors will go unappreciated. To help your fondness
for new foods come easier, ease up on spices, salt, and sugar.
That encourages your taste to appreciate a greater variety of
flavors. You then can more appreciate the sweetness of cherry
tomatoes, the sweetness of raw pumpkin, and the sweetness of
sweet potatoes, for example. You can enjoy the mild flavor of
raw chestnuts, the richness of nuts, and the subtle starchiness
of cereal grains. Your palate will be more adept at experiencing
the pleasures of subtle flavors. A great many foods that
previously seemed mostly tasteless, can then be enjoyed for
their unique flavors.

Your enjoyment of stronger tasting food will be helped by
reducing sugar and salt use. You will be switching from
depending on saltiness and sweetness to getting pleasure from
other flavors.

Finding new foods:

- Browse at a health food store, a farmers market or an ethnic
food festival.

- Take the time to look at all the items at a local supermarket.

- Browse at local ethnic food markets: Middle Eastern or Greek,
for example.

- Try raw foods and whole grains.

- Use native plants and foraged plants. Know what you are
doing, there are poisonous plants that resemble edible ones. A
few plants are toxic even when eaten in small quantities.

- Do your own cooking and gardening, if you have the time and
space.

A few unusual recipes can be found at www.leisureideas.com/easy
recipes unusual recipes.htm

Helen’s Summerstyle Leg of Lamb

September 8th, 2007

Most people have probably tried the Greek ‘Kleftiko’ lamb, a slow roasted dish that when done properly is probably the very best way to cook this kind of meat. The downside is the preparation involved - typically you have to cook the lamb for up to 8 hours or so, and the final quality can vary between fabulous and horrible. Well here’s a variation direct from www.helensrecipes.com that solves the problem, and will make your friends think you have spent an entire season in Greece, learning their cooking style! The lamb will fall off the bone and be full of flavor, it’s simple to prepare as are most of my dishes, as I believe good food shouldn’t take hours and hours of preparation.

You will need:
Leg of Lamb (will feed 8-12 people)
Celery x 4 - use strips then cut them into chunky slices
Lamb Stock Cubes x 2
8 leaves of mint
Fresh Rosemary
Carrots
Garlic cloves - slice them into small pieces
Salt & Pepper

Side Dish
Olive Oil - enough so you have a semi wet mixture
Whole Red onion chopped finely
Peas - allow a handful per person part boiled but still al-dente
Mint - 1 cup
Flat Leaf Parsley - 2 cups
Garlic Clove
Salt & Pepper

Pre heat the oven to 220 degrees. Take the lamb and put in a large deep roasting tin. Using a sharp knife make holes in the leg - you should have around 12 evenly spaced around the circumference. In the holes put a slice of garlic and a sprig of rosemary. Around the lamb put the celery and carrot chunks - remember this is only used for flavor so be as rough as you like. Put the sprigs of mint around the lamb and then pour 2 pints of lamb stock over the lamb. Season with salt and pepper and place in the oven. The lamb should be covered in the stock to a depth of about 2/3 of the lamb. After 30 minutes of cooking turn the oven down to 150 degrees, then baste the lamb every 40 minutes or so. You’ll need to be at home for this since the lamb will take 6-7 hours to cook. 3 hours into cooking you will need to turn the leg over in the roasting pan.

Once cooked place to one side and leave for 15 minutes to absorb the juices. Take the roasting tin and all the juices and filter through a fine sieve. This is what you will use for the stock. Put this back into a pan and reduce down, you may need to add a little cornflour to thicken depending on how you like your stock. The Greeks like it quite thick, I’m told by my www.helensrecipes.com staff.

You can prepare the side dish at any time as you only need to reheat it for a few minutes. In a blender put all the side dish ingredients and roughly blend (blitz function) - note this should not be a puree - you need to keep some texture.

I love to serve this dish with baby new boil potatoes which have been left to cool. Put a few in the middle of a plate and place some lamb on the top, then drizzle the pea and mint around the plate.

If it’s dinner for the family I would suggest some roast potatoes, lamb covered in thick gravy and the pea and mint as a side.

Enjoy!

About the Author

Famous chef to the stars Helen Porter, cooks fab dishes for www.helensrecipes.com the totally free recipes site for cooks under pressure!