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I Want Love

July 9th, 2008

Well here we are and you are reading this article because you searched the words; “I want Love” on the Internet and you are not alone. Most humans desire love in their life experience. In fact love is a great motivator of humankind and accounts for many of the things we do. For instance a parent would do most anything for their kids, because they love them. Most couples will do anything for their spouse or chosen mate.

Many believe that “Love,” that most powerful force is a divine part of being human. Others believe that love is the most powerful force in the Universe and indeed it often seems so. Is this why you want love, is this why you are searching for love? Well you are searching in all the right places, as you have now come to this article via the Internet Search Engine, which is the most powerful tool to seek information known to the free world here on Earth.

You see Love is a sensation that is interpret as humans, but in essence it is a set of interacting chemicals in our brains that produce wave forms, energy, which are pleasing to our bio-system. And pleasing they are, as when we feel it, nothing else seems to matter and it is suppose to be that way. It is probably a very necessary tool for our evolutionary survival.

Love is how humans interpret that sensation of euphoria, which the brain chemicals produce. This is why it feels so good. Some say Love is a drug and in a way they are right, it is a natural drug built into all of us and it is pretty cool indeed.

As far as Love being a divine gift unique to human beings, well that is hard to say as even felines go into a different state when they feel a similar sensation. If you have a cat you know when they feel safe and warn and very happy they curl up in your lap and purr.

As far as we know all mammals feel love and so it would be a leap of faith to interpret that, which is called love as anything other than about the most natural condition of our bodies. Love causes the body pleasure and helps the immune system and makes all the stresses of life seem uneventful by comparison and that is a good thing don’t you think? So if you “want love” you will find it and it will be worth the searching. Think on it.

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All About Bridal Shower Favors

April 18th, 2008

Your marriage is one the most significant events of your life. When you look back in fifty years, you want to remember everything that happened on that special day. The bridal shower is meant to be a special time for the bride, shared with close friends and family members. Whether it’s your daughter, sister, cousin, niece, or best friend that’s getting married, you want to make sure that it’s a great event that will be remembered for a lifetime. Bridal shower favors and wedding favors can be large or small, elegant or simple. There are also unique one-of-a-kind items that can’t be found anywhere else. Those are always a big hit! Whatever you end up doing, make sure you have elegant and unique party favors that everyone will love!

Popular Wedding and Bridal Shower Favors

There are many popular favors available. One that is currently very hot is plantable daisy seed pods. This is a gift that continues to grow with the passage of time. Several other plantable favors are among the most unique party favors you will find. Looking for something a little more traditional for your reception or bridal shower? Ornaments are a wonderful favor that can be a lasting reminder of your event.

How about a personalized, or whimsical favor? Things like frog prince glycerin soap, or Cinderella glass slipper favors, or personalized mints are great! Hankies are favorites for bridal shower favors as well. What about cookie bridal shower favors, or petite purse bridal shower favor boxes? These are popular too. From faux diamond engagement rings, to great plantable daisy seed favors, there’s many different items out there that your guests will love - and will make your wedding or shower a memorable occasion for all.

Unique Favors for Special Occasions

Creative party favors can be great for themed bridal showers or weddings. What are some great unique favors? How about “perfect pair” pear candles, anything silver, or bottle stopper favors (used for wine bridal shower favors or to place on a vinegar bottle.)? Think of something that’s never been done before, something that maybe combines different elements from existing favors out there. Or, maybe you could make something that would be ideal. Home made gifts can be great! Whatever you decide on, your guests will love to take a unique favor home with them.

Where do you Buy Favors?

There are many retailers who sell wedding favors and bridal shower favors. In fact, there are some great places online to purchase them.

Themed Bridal Shower Favors

Many brides-to-be and those planning their showers like to have a theme for the bridal shower. It’s usually a good idea to make it something unique that reflects the bride’s personality. Be sure to make the favors something elegant and classic that will go great with your theme.

So what types of themes are popular? How about butterfly themed favors, Cinderella themed favors, or star themed favors? Or maybe a daisy favor theme, an ocean theme, or “things that you can plant” themes. Or what about a tea party favor for brides who get married and have their reception near the ocean or a tropical island? Or, you could make it something practical like a kitchen theme favors, or something else for the home.

Is your budget a little tight? That’s typical for a lot of people. No need to worry; there are plenty of favors out there for bridal showers and weddings that are priced under $2.50. Many retailers also provide quantity discount prices for wedding favors and bridal shower favors, which makes them even more affordable.

Wedding and bridal shower guests want to leave the event with favors they will appreciate. Remember, wedding and bridal shower gifts don’t have to be boring. You don’t have to resort to the typical candle, picture frame, or chocolates. Give your invited guests the perfectly unique favor that will leave them with fond and treasured memories!

Favors by Serendipity features wedding favors and bridal shower favors, including picture frames, crystal, silver gifts, and more. They have been in the wedding favors and crafts business since 1975 and can satisfy the needs for any bride-to-be with their great experience and knowledgeable staff.

Las Vegas Weddings at the Flamingo

April 4th, 2008

The Flamingo Hotel & Casino, which is located in the heart of the famous Las Vegas Strip, provides a beautiful garden area that sets the mood for the many wedding venues that are offered there. Located on a hill in the garden area is The Garden Chapel, an elegant indoor wedding chapel. This is a switch from the chapels that most other hotels offer since it is located on the grounds instead of within the hotel.

If you prefer an outdoor location over a chapel, the Flamingo has plenty to choose from. You can say your nuptials in The Gazebo Chapel, which is an ivy covered gazebo in a garden setting. Want something more dramatic? The Crescendo Pool venue, located in the pool area, offers a stunning atmosphere that includes the bride making her grand entrance from underneath a waterfall. The ceremony then takes place with a large waterfall acting as a romantic backdrop. This location is only available during fall and winter months.

The West Lawn, which is another outdoor garden site, provides an old fashioned gazebo located in the midst of a large grassy area. The Garden Trellis, a small garden locale with rose covered trellis, and The Paradise Falls, a small waterfall location, are available for more intimate affairs.

Traditional packages with ceremony site, minister, flowers, photos, and video are offered for these locations. Some packages include room or suite accommodations. Another great thing about the packages is that they provide either a pianist or violinist for the ceremony so you and your guests enjoy the experience of live music rather than recorded.

The Flamingo can also organize a reception for you. They can help you arrange everything from a simple or elaborate banquet to a gathering in one of their restaurants. If you prefer something private, they can even help you put together a party in your suite. So if you are looking to marry in Las Vegas and would like a romantic and breathtaking locale for your wedding, you may want to give the wedding sites offered by the Flamingo a closer look.

Rebecca Johnson is the owner of Las Vegas Wedding Informer,a website that provides information about Las Vegas wedding locations. For more information about Las Vegas wedding locations and the packages and services that they offer, visit http://www.lasvegasweddinginformer.com.

Throw Away Your Book On Sex Tips!

March 26th, 2008

It’s easy to fall into a routine that allows your family and
marriage to run smoothly. Routines are good and help you to meet
the many demands on your life. However, it’s important that your
“routine” includes intimate time with your spouse.

Intimate time doesn’t just equate to sex, it equates to intimate
discussions about where your life is now, where you hope it will
go and a few dreams thrown in along the way. Ongoing intimacy
keeps a relationship strong and improves the physical aspect of
your marriage as well.

Intimate times means there are no other demands to distract you
from your sweetheart. If you have kids, it means you need to get
out at least once a week on a date so you can have these types
of conversations.

While you’re talking about getting away, don’t forget to have an
annual get away for a weekend. These marital retreats allow you
to be more relaxed and not worry about child invaders in the
bedroom, telephone calls, spilled milk, or a myriad of other
distractions that stop a romantic moment cold.

Intimate time includes time relaxing together on walks, drives,
picnics etc. These times are also a good time to include the
rest of the family. It’s important to have meaningful family
time together and for your children to see a healthy, intimate
relationship.

After all, if they don’t learn about appropriate intimate
relationships from your example, they will have to look to the
world. Do you really want them to model the examples they will
find on TV, in movies or just next door? These examples may
often be an undesirable or poor model of a healthy relationship.

Although you may hear the groans of…”gross”…”get a
room”…or “not again!” nothing warms a child’s heart more than
seeing their parents in love and showing that love. So hold
hands, cuddle when you watch the TV, let the kids see a kiss
good bye, hello, or just because.

You will find as you have intimate conversations and show
tenderness in public, your intimacy in private will be far more
fulfilling as well.

So throw out the sex tips book and use the time instead to
rediscover the joys of emotional and physical intimacy with your
sweetheart. Then you’ll realize that your marriage wasn’t
needing a few new moves, it was needing true intimacy.

Wedding Planning: Clear Communication with Your Wedding Guests

February 26th, 2008

Effective communication between you and your wedding guests is essential in the months leading up to your wedding. But in this stressful time, how can you maintain healthy relationships with your family and friends when you’re flooded with questions and feeling in over your head?

You know your wedding guests ask for details because they care about you. They want to feel involved and informed during this exciting time in your life. And admit it, it’s nice to have all the attention focused on you and your Big Day! Yet it can often be a bit overwhelming to answer the same questions over and over again. Or maybe you’re concerned that important wedding details will be forgotten or misinterpreted.

In just a few simple steps, you can create easy and accessible sources of information specifically for and about your wedding. When your wedding guests feel informed, confusion will be minimized for them and for you. Everyone wins!

Sources of Information:

1) Both Sets of Parents - Of course, your parents will probably know all about even the most minute detail of your wedding, but remember to go over the basics to ensure that they will share accurate, up-to-date information. Chances are, your parents will receive inquiries when you’re not around, so be sure to advise them of any details you wish to have passed along.

2) Bridal Party - This involves everyone from your bridesmaids and groomsmen, to your ushers and guest book attendants. Your wedding guests will definitely direct questions at these individuals, and they’ll want to be ready to offer assistance.

3) Bridal Consultant or Wedding Planner - Obviously, this individual will be in tune with your wedding itinerary and details, but ensure that he or she has a quick reference to any and all questions that may be presented.

4) Personal Wedding Website or Wedding Webpage- Post all essential wedding details online so accurate information can be displayed 24/7! Send the web address of your personal wedding website to everyone on your email list. Also include the web address of your wedding website with your wedding invitations so your guests can come back often to view any new details you choose to post.

Important Details to Communicate:

1) Schedule of Events - Include expected starting dates and times for the wedding ceremony and reception, along with the appropriate addresses and phone numbers. Relay maps or driving directions and if necessary, any parking specifications or restrictions for each venue.

2) Wedding Gift Registry - Tactfully and effectively share what your wedding guests really want to know: what you need and where they can go to get it!

3) Contact Info - List the “go to” person you’ve delegated for any further details.

4) Allergy Alerts - A must-have if your meal selections contain ingredients that trigger well-known allergies.

5) Dress Code Guidelines - If certain dress codes are in effect, it is essential for your guests to be aware of this ahead of time.

6) Special Requests - Special care needs to be given to potentially delicate information such as “adult only” requests or “invited guests only due to limited space”. These issues should be presented kindly and firmly, but in a sensitive manner.

7) Travel and Lodging Info - Share special rates you’ve negotiated or related accommodation details such as blocks of hotel rooms reserved under your names. You may need to supply a unique code for your wedding guests to provide at the time of booking.

8) Weather Restrictions - If any part of your wedding celebration is being held outdoors, convey all back-up arrangements should the weather not cooperate.

9) “RSVP By” Date - Have a deadline by which all RSVPs must be sent in. Set your “RSVP By” date far enough in advance that you can deliver an accurate guest count to your caterer and organize proper seating arrangements for your tables.

10) Currently Unknown Details - Your input is needed, even if you do not yet have a definite opinion or a decision made regarding a certain aspect of your wedding. Sometimes it’s helpful when your wedding guests can realize that you have not yet finalized a certain element of your wedding, but will be sure to share more once you have reached a decision. This can ease the pressure put on you and your decision-making process. A personal wedding website is especially effective in these instances, since you may post a “More info coming soon!” page on your wedding website.

Your wedding guests will be thankful for the lines of communication you’ve established for their benefit. With this in place, you can get back to enjoying your family and friends, rather than feeling overwhelmed by their questions. Clear communication is critical to effectively plan a stress-free wedding. After all, informed guests are happy guests…and happy guests are ready to celebrate your amazing, unforgettable wedding day!

About the Author

Jennifer Benson is Vice President and cofounder of WedQuarters.com Wedding Websites, a leading online wedding service provider. WedQuarters offers complete personal wedding websites, enhanced with online and toll free wedding RSVP services.

What is a good age to marry?

February 21st, 2008

What is a good age to marry? People vary a great deal in the
ages at which they become mature. A few exceptional people might
be ready for marriage in their teens.

Others are much too “young” at thirty. A good approach is to
find out the average age when people actually do marry. In most
developed countries, the age of most men today at the time of
first marriage is about twenty-four. Their brides are slightly
over twenty-one.

Contrary to popular opinion, people of today are not older, but
younger at the time of marriage than they were fifty years ago.
Having considered briefly the average ages at which people do
marry, let us now consider the good age to marry.

Studies have indicated that teenage marriages are the least
successful. They suggest that marriage in the early to middle
twenties is desirable. These conclusions find substantial
support from other sources. Child-bearing is easiest and safest
in the early twenties, although modern science has made it
increasingly safe for all ages.

A 50 years old and controversial report indicate that men reach
their peak of sex desire well before twenty, so that the
postponement of marriage places a strain upon those who observe
the accepted moral standards.

Yet emotional maturity and economic competence take time to
develop. And if marriage is to represent a complete fulfillment
of the love relationship, emotionally as well as physically, the
couple should wait for marriage until they are fully ready.

For most couples the best age for marriage seems to be from the
early to the middle twenties. Remember, however, that you are
not a statistic, or even two statistics. You are you. The
question is not, “what is the good age to marry?” but “What is
the best age for YOU to marry?”.

The best way to decide is to look at what marriage success
involves, and then try to see whether or not you have what it
takes. The information found in christian-dating-guide.com may
help you to decide.

Choosing A Mobile Disco For Your Wedding

January 31st, 2008

This article is intended to give anybody looking to book a mobile disco, some ideas of what questions to ask, and what areas to look for, when choosing a Mobile Dj for their Wedding. Although written to advise a client looking to book a Mobile Disco for a Wedding Reception, the various points made within, may also be suitable for many other family functions where the services of a Mobile Disco may also be employed.

One of the first things you should look for when choosing a Mobile Disco, is the information which is given in the Brochure / Website. Has the Dj taken time to provide pictures of his / her roadshow, have they written in detail about the services that they provide and taken the time to publicise how long they have been in business, what music they play, and any testimonials or professional affiliations they have. What are your first impressions of the DJ and the business they run?. Even at this early stage you should trust your instincts.

Another area, you should look for is the availability of information, does the DJ clearly advertise their contact information. DJ’s who conduct business purely through a hotmail or yahoo address, or those who choose only give a throw away mobile phone number as a sole point of contact, should perhaps be avoided.

The next is to contact the Mobile Disco by email or phone, to assess their suitability for your fuction. Don’t be afraid to ask as many questions which you feel are important to you, and it is often a good idea to either email these, or have them written down when you make the call. The DJ is a service provider, and will have allowed plenty of time to address any questions or concerns which their clients may have. Look for descrepencies in areas where the information provided by the Dj doesn’t quite match up with that given on the website!.

When considering booking a Mobile Disco, you should expect the DJ to play a mixed music selection suitable for all of the age groups attending. At most Wedding Receptions, with family present this usually means a wide and varied evening of music suitable for young and old tastes alike. Avoid booking any DJ who seems only interested in playing one type of music, or who will play music which may be unsuitable for the age groups in attendance. Ensure that the DJ has a comprehensive music collection, and seems knowledgable and confident on all eras of music. Again, any Dj who askes you to describe what Motown or 70’s music sounds like, is not really experienced enough and should perhaps be best avoided for this type of function.

If required, your DJ should be able to incorporate a playlist, containing your favourite requests into the evening disco. However don’t make this list too long or specialised, since a lot of DJ’s work by “reading” the dancefloor reaction and ensuring continuity of music depending on which types of music the audience are responiding to. Since all people and audiences are different, and all individuals have different musical tastes, it is impossible to create a playlist of music before the actual function with a guarantee that running order will work with your guests.

Most DJ’s like to also invite and include the requests of the Wedding Guests too, as well as those requested in advance by the Bride and Groom. Remember, when booking a DJ, you are also paying for his / her experience as an enertainer, so please be prepared to allow a little flexibility and continuity in your personal music choices, and any request list which you may choose to provide your DJ with.

At most Weddings it is often a custom for the Bride and Groom to choose the first dance, and this signals the start of the actual Evening Function. At some Weddings the Bride and Groom may also choose a second track too, and this can be used to invite other guests onto the dancefloor to join the happy couple, or for the Bride and her Father to share a dance. Occasionally a third track for another key family member could also be incorporate as well, if required. Remember to ensure that this information and any request list is sent to the DJ, well ahead of the actual function date.

When choosing a Mobile Disco, don’t just base your requirements and expectations on price alone. At many Wedding Receptions, large amounts of money have usually already been spent on the venue, the venue decor, flowers, food, and of course the Wedding Cake and other services such as a photographer, and some may think nothing of spending hundreds on extras such as a chocolate fountain whilst skimping on the entertainment!. Whilst these areas are important, many clients do make the mistake of booking a cheaper disco as a way of saving money and are then disappointed with the results.

Realistically, it is false economy to just book the Mobile Dj who comes in with the lowest quote. Don’t forget that the evenings entertainment, will play a big role in the success of any Wedding Reception, and an inexperienced DJ, or one who doesn’t turn up at all, may ruin an otherwise pefect day. Equally a Dj who plays too loudly or who plays unsuitable music may chase away your guests early and ruin the enjoyment of those who do remain until the end. When bookng a DJ, you are paying for the difference between a jukebox in the corner and a professional entertainer, and the latter will of course expect a professional fee for their services.

A Good Dj will be able to create a positive atmosphere and have the experience to make the function work. Remember that it is the Dj’s experience you are paying for, and not just the flashing lights.

When booking a Mobile Disco also ask them if they have public liability insurance. This is important, should any accidents occur between the Disco Equipment and your guests, which is at the liability of the DJ you have the reassurance that they are covered. Just as importantly, a lot of venues and hotels will not allow a Mobile Disco to enter their premises unless this certificate can be produced. Therefore it is in your own interests to make sure that the DJ who you book, has this minimum requirement, otherwise you may see your disco being refused entry and be unable to carry out his obligations, leaving you without a dj, on the evening of your function. In the UK, Mobile DJ’s are also required at some venues to produce PAT (Electrcal Safety) certificates and so, if you live in the UK or other countries which require this, then make sure that your mobile disco has the level of requirements expected by your hotel or Wedding venue.

Most DJ’s will dress accordingly depending on the formality of the event, at Wedding Receptions the usual dress for a function would be a Tux or a suit. If you have any special requirements for attire, such as black tie or if the function has a theme or fancy dress, then any DJ worth their reputation will dress suitably for the function or theme if instructed.

This is YOUR function and YOUR special day, so any mobile disco should be flexible as to the arrangements and your music requirements, so it is important to discuss these requirements prior to making a confirmed booking. Most DJ’s structure their fee according to how many hours they work, so give some serious considerations to the timescale of the event. Remember that the Evening Function and its start time is reliant not only on other earlier activites such as the ceremony and the wedding breakfast running to schedule, but also the arrival of any guests for the Evening function who may be running late. So don’t book your disco to start too early in order to allow for some inevitable over running and late arriving guests.

When considering the finishing time for your disco, also consider how long most of the guests have been in attendance, will they have the energy to dance until 1AM, if they have been at the ceremony since 1PM?. Do you have a function with a lot of young children or elderly relations who may leave the venue early? have any relatives travelled a long distance to be there, and who may too need to leave early in order to return home?. All these are important considerations which decide whether your Wedding Disco finishes at Midnight or runs on well into the early hours!, and again the duration of the function will reflect in your DJ’s fee.

Also remember to mention to the DJ any special requirements. Do you want the use of the Microphone and P,A system for the speeches?, Do you want background music during any meal or buffet breaks?, is the DJ sharing the reception with a band?. Is the Dj expected to set up in a marquee?, is there limited space at the venue or limited access to set up?

Above all, always trust your insticts when contacting Mobile Discos, consider how much interest the DJ showed in your function, did they ask any questions?, did they appear professional and courteous?, how long did it take them to respond to your enquiry?, did they answer your questions in detail?.

Remember that how long a Mobile Disco has been in business is an important factor, if in doubt you should always remember to ask the DJ if they can provide references from clients who have booked them for similar events. Please remember that is not always practical to see a Mobile DJ working, especially if that DJ only provides mobile discos for weddings, and of course in this situation it would not be ethical or professional for a working Dj to invite potential clients to other peoples private functions for viewing purposes

When you choose your Disco and book the event, then expect to pay a small deposit in order to secure the date of the function. It’s also very important that your booking details and terms are sent to you in writing, and that you have some form of contract with the DJ.

I hope that this article has proved useful in giving some basic information on what questions to ask, what to look out for, and the various areas of planning which should be considered when booking a mobile disco for your event.

Chris Pointon is a Working Mobile DJ based in the UK, and with over 18 years experience at providing entertainment at private and corporate events. Please visit his website at http://www.mobiledisco.org

Chris also runs a forum aimed at helping and advising those who want to start a mobile disco. The community can be found http://www.dj-forum.co.uk

Give Your Wedding Favors The Personal Touch

January 19th, 2008

One wedding seems to blend into another and looking for alternative ideas can be a struggle. Here are some great tips for making your wedding favors as unique as you are!

Ensure your wedding favors are unique wedding favors, encompassing everything you and your partner are about. Rather than going for traditional boxes or nets, why not design your own cookie wedding favor? A personalized wedding favor is so much more memorable for the guests who attend your big day. Many brides are now purchasing personalized ribbon for wedding favors. This way, brides can choose from a wide selection of favor boxes and organza bags and turn them into a personalized wedding favor by adding personalized ribbon.

Most couples choose to have their names and wedding dates printed on personalized ribbon for favor boxes, although some brides do have the guests names also printed on ribbon - a great idea for a place setting too.

Another way of providing guests with a personalized wedding favor is by attaching a tag. This personalized wedding favor tag may state the names of the bride and groom along with their wedding date or the wedding venue name or a short message from the happy couple to the guests.

A unique wedding favor such as this is well received by the guests and once the contents have been consumed, there is something left to have as a keepsake. In essence, all brides try to offer unique wedding favors to their guests but there is nothing worse than receiving a gift similar to one you have previously received at a wedding. Bear this in mind when you are deciding which wedding favors to offer your guests at your wedding because people do remember a unique wedding favor or a personalized wedding favor more than one which is non specific and seemingly not very well thought out.

Of course, not all unique wedding favors are edible. There are many gifts that can be given to wedding guests that are inedible such as wedding favor coasters, photo album favors, picture frame wedding favors and candle wedding favors. These are just as easy to present as personalized wedding favors, again with the addition of personalized ribbon or a personalized tag. Your guests may well be equally impressed with your innovative and novel ideas as you provide them with a quality alternative to edible wedding favors.

Instead of spending out on wedding favors, some brides choose to offer guests a piece of wedding cake beautifully presented in a personalized wedding favor box or a pretty organza bag. For brides who choose to give their guests some cake in a bag, they can attach a personalized wedding favor tag or tie the top with personalized ribbon. Either way, it is a lovely way of being a bit different and really offering your guests a unique wedding favor exclusive to you.

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Nevada Wedding Laws

January 12th, 2008

While you may be headed to Las Vegas for a quickie wedding or a
prolonged celebration, take time to find out what the law
requires before you buy that plane ticket. Each state’s laws
differ, and many couples get married in Las Vegas because the
law allows them to marry quickly. But don’t start planning your
nuptials until you check out this all-important piece of the
wedding cake.

A Las Vegas wedding ceremony must conform to Nevada wedding laws
to be considered legal. Marriage license bureaus are available
at several locations in and around Las Vegas as well as other
cities in the state. Men can only marry women and vice versa.
Identification is required and may be proven with a valid
driver’s license, state-issued ID card, original or certified
copy of your birth certificate, a passport, military
identification, or resident alien card.

The fee ranges from $35 to $42, depending on which county the
license is purchased from. Divorced persons must know the day,
month, and year of their divorce. Although marriage regulations
may not be the most exciting part of the wedding preparations,
they certainly are one of the most important! Don’t neglect to
find out in advance what you need to bring with you for getting
state and city authority to marry in the city of dreams.

© Copyright Randy Wilson, All Rights Reserved

Dressing The Ladies At Your Wedding

December 24th, 2007

At the wedding, the stars of the show are the bride and groom (as it should be). After all, it is their special day. Still, some care should be taken to appropriately dress the friends who you’ve chosen to be part of your event.

It is quite common for the bride to choose colors for the ladies gowns that matches the theme she has chosen. Usually brides put them all in identical outfits, usually in pastel shades (lilac, puce, yellow, anyone?) since that is what her dream wedding looks like in her mind. Heaven forbid anyone who outshines the bride!

Ladies, have mercy on your friends and let your taste and love for them shine through. They are meant to be a foil to your beauty and to show that your beauty is found in your friends too. If you have a specific color you’d like to use, then why not let the styles of their dresses vary a little, make each tailored to suit each dear friend best.

Dressing your ladies to look their best within the theme you’ve set will make them love you even more. Keep in mind that at your wedding they are also on display, and may actually meet their match at your event. She actually wants to be as beautiful as you do but has no intention of stealing your thunder.

Here’s a thought: when you go to your dress designer, bring your bridesmaids with you (yes, this includes the maid of honor) and let them help choose their gowns. You still have final say, but they get to add a personal touch or two. You create a memory to treasure with your friends this way and leave them a special souvenir of your nuptials.

Lesley-Ann Graham runs WeddingTrix.com - a valuable wedding planning resource with articles, tips and advice to help you plan your perfect wedding. Visit Lesley-Ann’s wedding blog for more free wedding planning help and advice.